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Buying a car for an aging parent

Roles, budget, whose name goes on the title, signing with a power of attorney, and how to handle the dealership when the buyer is 78 and you live two states away.

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At some point the call comes: Mom’s 2009 Camry needs a transmission, or Dad came home from a dealership with a worksheet and a deposit receipt and something feels off. Helping a parent buy a car is a different job from buying your own. The car has to fit them, the money is usually theirs, the paperwork has legal consequences, and the dealership process is built to move quickly past exactly the person you are trying to protect.

This is the purchase we walk families through, in the order it should happen. Every dollar figure is an example.

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In the full guide

  1. Agree on roles before anyone visits a store
  2. How many years of driving is this car for?
  3. The budget on a fixed income
  4. Whose name goes on the title and the loan
  5. Signing with a power of attorney
  6. The trade-in of a long-owned car
  7. In the store
  8. After the purchase

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