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Selling a car you still owe on, to a private buyer or a dealer

The lender holds the title; the buyer wants it before paying. How to get the right payoff, handle positive or negative equity, and close a private sale safely.

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The only thing between you and selling a car you still owe on is a piece of paper you don’t have: the title. Your lender holds it until the loan is paid. A private buyer won’t hand over $16,000 without a title, and you can’t get the title without $16,000. That chicken-and-egg problem is why many owners give up and trade in, often for less than a private buyer would have paid.

Dealers solve this daily with a process: get a payoff, pay the lender when the deal funds, wait for the title. You can do the same. Free tip: your statement balance isn’t your payoff. Ask the lender for a 10-day payoff in writing plus the per-diem interest. Below: the math when you owe more or less than the car is worth, four safe ways to close a private sale, selling to a dealer without buying anything, why you keep paying until the lender confirms it’s closed, and the add-on refunds people forget.

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  1. The two numbers that matter
  2. Call the lender before you list
  3. Worked example: positive and negative equity
  4. Four ways to close a private sale safely
  5. Selling to a dealer without trading in
  6. Don't stop paying until the lender says it's closed
  7. The money people forget: add-on refunds
  8. What to say
  9. Your game plan

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